These words are taken seriously by millions of people that engage in the lifestyle around the world. This includes instilling motivation to guide her into fulfilling her desires to be a slave girl. This is a lifestyle of personal choice not force. Set your limits for training and expect them to be followed. What do I need to train my slave? She should know where you are meeting and how long you will be there with him. Just always keep it safe, sane and by all mean consensual.
This is not a weekend sport for most slave girls; it is their core. I know you are eager but your safety comes first. Often a slave contract clearly states both parties requirements. This is not about abuse or forcing those not willing or wanting to serve and obey you to do so. If you find them interesting and agree to meet, be sure and follow basic safety precautions. Torture to obtain submission or holding someone against their will, has no place in the lifestyle and is also a violation of law.
Anything else is abuse and not what this website is about. The terms safe, sane and consensual are the cornerstones of safely practicing this lifestyle. I recommend having the slave read every page of this or whatever training plan you use so she fully understands and agrees to your training style and methods. After a couple days of searching and reading, I found this website. Learn more about them before agreeing to start the bdsm relationship.
A master must know what he wants and be realistic. This is the third day of her week long slave training in the basement of the Armory and today, Britney will experience unusual sensations. I honestly believe slave training is primarily an art form and not a science. If you are in a relationship and he wants to change to to a dominant submissive one, it is your right to refuse. Simply talking to someone does not make you their dominant or submissive.
You learn about consensual spanking, bondage, frigging and other nasty practices you will love. Many, many times the answer is no the partner does not want to live a bdsm lifestyle. A new slave will find the lifestyle crammed with slave positions, protocols, speech restrictions, rituals and rules. Ask for references and some personal information, before meeting. This came from a series of books written by John Norman about life on the mythical planet of Gor.
Thank you for your support for this slave training guide since the site began in 2002. This material only aids you by giving you basic knowledge. A Master trains a slave to fit his needs. Both parties know what is expected and agree before starting.
A slave needs to go into this with her eyes wide open. Take the time to let trust grow. I, like many relish the books, but prefer my own style of training. I discuss these four cornerstones of B. Find out basic information about him that can be given to the police before meeting.
He said I could ask him anything I wanted and I wanted to take my time and really think about it and educate myself before making a decision. The lifestyle is not a place to practice domestic abuse or violence but you might find some predators on any dating service. In my opinion force does not work or override consent. You're website is wonderful and I am so grateful I came across it. Even if her basic personality is that of a submissive that does not mean she wants the bdsm lifestyle.
This site owners don't have any relation to links provided on this site. China Hamilton — slave in bondage The aim of B. If you wish a sex slave, then teach her those skills. Though I still am undecided, I feel as though I now truly have an understanding of what I would be getting into. A slave begins her path into slavery by giving up choices.
Spending additional time to discuss issues in never a problem. Always meet for the first few times in public and remain in public. Many in the lifestyle follow the Goren ways. Listen to your Master, hear his words and become the best possible slave girl you can be. .