He was never ever abusive and was always kind. We're all only human, after all. If President Obama lets 200,000 of those people into our country, it will be the end of our country as we know it. I believe this 19 yr old will be easier to control.
But that is why contraception is so important as that kind of going badly will last atleast 18 years. . Also just because a much older man has a young girl does not make him a sexual predator or child abuser. Peer pressure will be setting in, and you don't want to outcast her totally from her friends.
The cute and talkative preteen you once knew and loved may have morphed into a creature who is filled with complicated emotions, wanting to distance herself and to constantly challenge your authority. Plus, I can see the power imbalance which is subtle. A lot of young girls do end up doing that as their first scene. Interesting point of yours, nonetheless. I know that she got involved in drugs with him, as well.
I am also wodnering if there is a bias as well. However, that was a completely different situation than yours, which is not even to be compared to yours. Have some flexibility on the times, and this way your daughter will respect you more. I know I am not a counselor, but I do hope to provide her with an advantage of learning from my own experience and helping her in a way that I could not help my own daughter. These young girls are mentally too immature to know how damaging this type of experience can be…mentally and physically.
Try to contact your daughters on social media, and try not to be mean. Mostly I think it is jealousy that motivates this. No, like Kim Kardashian famous. You are being with a person out of fear that he might take his own life.
And then I kind of did. Rachel never told her parents, but they found out. You seem to be one of the exceptions, a young lady who is mature enough to handle dating an older guy without getting used or mistreated. You have to be accepting, no matter what you think. Be there for her then, too, without forcing her to tell you what's up.
I tortured myself trying to understand it all. I have a daughter who lived with her mother we are divorced. That pretty cute teen with dark hair and bright big eyes is the most polular girl in her school. Tbh alot of young teens at my school end up dating older guys and they are just 15,16 or 17 the guy would be 19 years or older and to me it really looks stupid and a waste of time when they can become someone important in life but they only care about being love,money and popularity. And I do think that they are all still boys in that age group.
You deserve someone who is closer to your age, has never been married and hopefully has no kids. Very few of the relationships have actually been violent or abusive physically, but inappropriate and unhealthy altogether. My partner freaked, as I knew would happen, the predator was banned from the house. My 17-year-old daughter was involved with a man who was 45. I knew I couldn't come back here. I am absolutely miserable with him.
Some men find milfs hot, but many do not. It shows girls performing obscene acts that can cause them to vomit or bleed. Let her know that you only have her best interests at heart. She has always had a very difficult time making decisions for herself because of her anxiety but the last thing we need is for this guy to be making decisions for her. My daughter has not spoken to me since Thanksgiving when she moved out.