You may get to a point in your body where there is a sharp curve that leads into the sigmoid colon of your body and from there you'd need to reapply lube and basically restart the anal part of the sex, but I've never needed to get anything that deep in there yet. I use a really thin and long soft dildo to dilate. I've had the same problem but with my new lover. Generally speaking, before Im done with this initial 69 position, I will have worked two to four fingers in her ass. At some point, let her back on to your cock; sit back on your heels and put a pillow under your ass; let her control the depth and pace. A note of caution is to keep lubed so she isnt in too much discomfort the next day youll want her to invite you back on that ride! It is 1000000000 times better than the prostate.
During the 69 style oral sex session; dude on bottom. At this point, you can flip her on her side or stand up keep her ass up in doggy position and put your feet in front of her hips; now, you can take long strokes and pound if your both ready. Jim I think some people must go about anal all wrong. Circle the tip of your dick around her ass periodically and at some point, position it right on her ass and let her back onto it. Then when shes getting soaking wet; lie down on your back and guide her pussy to your mouth.
I cant think of one time that anal wasnt wildly successful to some degree. It solved the problem for me. The sigmoid colon is the area before your colon which you clean before you have anal sex. I found that it doesn't need to be as wide as his penis and when starting, trying to use a wide one is counterproductive. I'd shoot my load into her ass making sure every last drip of cum makes it into her asshole, then I'd shove my hard cock back in and fuck her somemore, making sure that cum gets pushed deep in her ass. Then it Hurts when he plunged deep.
See the other posts on this subject. Your mission is to ease her into it, let her trust you and loosen her up More times than not, shes asking me to get inside her; fuck her, fill her up or something similar. When you want it inside, push it so it's heads toward the front of your body. I have a very large cock and always manage to get it into my boyfriends' sigmoid colon but only once have I had it in my sigmoid colon. Wow, I would love to fuck that beautiful ass of hers, then as I'm about to cum I would pull out as she sticks her fingers in her ass and spreads it open for me.
I'm new to anal sex with long and large diameter cocks. It has its own separate sphincter muscles that are farther up your anus and can be between 7-12 inches into your rectum. Perhaps thats the main mistake most guys make. It's worth the trouble if you really want to learn.
. Tease her; make her want you. While I had my orgasm, every time he thrusted and touched my sigmoid colon, semen would gush out of my penis. Push around the hole while licking her, slip a lubed finger in shallow tease her for 5 to 10 mins slip a thumb in her pussy and a finger in her ass keep licking and sucking! Apparently it's better than anal sex once you can get it in, but I've never take anything that far into my anus. You can go to missionary, reach down and continue playing with her ass while fucking or go to doggy and continue playing with her ass.
Let her control the pace and depth. Try taking it while on your back. But everything has to be done properly. Since I dont study anal sex I can only offer some successful tips that have worked for me First and foremost - Become an expert in oral sex Start with just going down on her. Aside from a few times when I was young and inexperienced, Ive never set out with anal sex specifically in mind. Nearby lube is handy, but pussy juice and spit also work.
It slips in there easily. Give her an orgasm or two Use your tongue and hand s. It was so good I made him do it to me 3 more times that day. Is this part of the body the deeper part of the rectum flexible enough to expand so that I can take in his cock all the way with some practice? If moving to doggy; remember to keep changing the pace deep, hard, soft, slow, shallow, her head low and ass high, her back straight, and so on.
Leave it alone for a min or two and go back to her pussy. She is female and and I'm a Bi male with an anal sex question. Slip two finger tips in and spread her ass open slowly. If you do a search for old threads on the subject of having anal sex with a big penis is implied here there are a lot of great threads with a lot of information.